Q: Why does Jesus, particularly in St. John's Gospel, call Mary 'woman' and not 'mother'?
There are two places in St. John's Gospel where Jesus refers to Mary as "woman." The first is at the wedding feast of Cana, after Mary informs Jesus that the newly married couple has run out of wine. Our Lord responds by saying, "'Woman, how does your concern affect me? My hour has not yet come'" (John 2:4). The second time is at the crucifixion when Jesus entrusts Mary to St. John; He says, "Woman, behold, your son" (John 19:26).