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DEAR FATHER | Handling the gifts at Mass with care

Father John Mayo

What happens if the (unconsecrated) offertory gifts are dropped?

Growing up, my parents occasionally went to Shop 'n Save. My job was to bag the groceries. In my teenage gusto, I bagged the groceries heavy, stuffing as much as I could in the bags. I remember Mom reminding me on at least a few occasions to bag the bread separately and to put it in a separate place, lest it get smashed. I remember a few sandwiches at school that didn't quite look the same as the other students until I had learned this lesson.

Dear Father | The Magi were dedicated to seeking the highest truth

Father John Mayo

Who were the Wise Men and why were they the ones to seek Jesus? 

DEAR FATHER | Advent is first in liturgical year as recognition of first moment of Christ’s life

Father John Mayo

Why is Advent considered the beginning of a new liturgical year? 

Calendars bring order and sequence to the events of our lives. Each day, we look to our calendar to see what we are going to do that particular day. We also look ahead to see what will be happening the rest of the week or month. It reminds us about events we may look forward to.

DEAR FATHER | Patience empowers us to endure frustrations

Father John Mayo

When I read this question, I realized how pertinent it is. In my experience as a confessor, impatience is the most confessed sin by adults.

​Being impatient is a state to which we become addicted. When we experience a situation or see a person, we might feel irritation and anger bubble up from our gut. With these feelings come words of blaming of them in our mind and possibly shaming the person or situation verbally or nonverbally. While it feels right and proper at the moment, we know at the end of the day we will feel guilty and empty about it.

DEAR FATHER | Occult practices may be an entryway for evil spirits

What does the Church say about exorcisms? 

An unfortunate trend today views the spiritual as a novelty. This has led to a rise in certain television shows about "spirits" and various practices, such as using tarot cards or Ouija boards, palm reading, reading horoscopes, using hypnosis for fun and even participating in magic beyond the normal illusion tricks.

DEAR FATHER | Apostolic Pardon applies merits of Christ, saints to dying person's temporal punishment

The Apostolic Pardon is one element of the "Last Rites" of the Catholic Church. It is given by the priest to a person who is dying or near death. After the sick person has made a last confession, or if they are unable to go to confession, the priest has asked all present to call to mind their sins, and he is invited by the Church to give the Apostolic Pardon. The words of this prayer tell us much about what it is:

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